Letters

Browse letters by the themes that run through the work.

Egg Freezing

Egg freezing regret — 7 things women wish they'd known beforehandThe women who regret it are almost never the ones who did it. They're the ones who waited too long to start. Here's what I and the women I work with wish we'd known first.
Should I freeze my eggs at 30? 5 things that change the calculationAt 30, nothing feels urgent — that's exactly the trap. I was 33 when I first seriously thought about it, and the two years I spent procrastinating cost me egg quality I can't get back.

IVF & Surrogacy

What happens to your eggs, legally — wherever you freeze themEgg freezing is rarely the end of the story. Here's what the law actually says about using your eggs later — for IVF, with a partner, with donor sperm, or alone.

Doing It Alone

Egg freezing alone — 5 things nobody tells you about doing it soloI froze my eggs at 35 in Spain without a partner. Here are the 5 things I wish someone had told me before I started.

Body & Mind

Egg freezing and mental health — 7 ways to support yourself through the processThe emotional weight of egg freezing is real and underserved. Here are 7 specific ways to support your mental health through the process — especially when you're doing it alone.

Cost & Planning

How much does egg freezing cost in the UK? 7 real clinic prices for 2026I called 103 clinics across the UK to get real, current pricing — so you don't have to dig through six tabs and three phone calls to get a straight answer.